It's an unfortunate truth that the majority of us have probably been cheated on at some point during our adult lives. It's something that happens at an alarming rate and if you have been on the receiving end of infidelity, you will know that it's pretty crushing. While there's nothing you can necessarily do about it, there are some signs that you can watch out for.
So, if you get the feeling that your partner may be straying, or you simply want to know how to be vigilant, take a look at the below.
1. They're talking a lot about someone new
Think about when you first start crushing on someone: they occupy your mind and you can't help but talk about them all the time. During the infatuation period, your partner will talk about this new person constantly, but you should also remember that it could be just a harmless crush. However, if they abruptly stop talking about the person in question, it could be due to an affair or because the friendship has fallen apart.
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2. Their attitude has changed drastically
If your partner has had a sudden shift in attitude, it could mean that something suspicious is going on. If they're more affectionate than before, it might be that they're feeling guilty about something, and if they're being less loving, it could be that they're withdrawing from the relationship.
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3. They've become lazy
It's hardly surprising, but it turns out that the person who is putting the most amount of work into the relationship, is the person who is less likely to have an affair. If you feel like you're doing all of the work and that your partner just isn't interested, it may be that they've head their head turned by someone else.
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4. Trust your instincts
If you think something is up with your significant other, it's likely that there is something is going on with them. Even if they aren't having a full-fledged affair and they're just having a bit of a wobble, it's always best to ask them if anything is bothering them. Trust your instincts and act upon them.
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5. They have changed their routine
If you've noticed a sudden change in your partner's routine, it could spell bad news for the relationship. Maybe they're suddenly working much later, or they're going out for a run at a different time. If it's bothering you, bring it up in a way that doesn't seem too much like an interrogation and see what they have to say about it.
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